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AN INTRODUCTION

The Je’daii path is a path of the Grey. Grey have no acknowledgement of things like mother destroyer and father creator and light and dark and good and bad and right and wrong. These are self-limiting and self-imposed skewed components of a dualistic worldview that we do not conform to. Others see a distinction between the light and the dark, the Grey sees no distinction. This false duality is a system of control no different than any moral system. The Grey seek freedom from any such system that limits their potential. This includes controls like selfishness, indifference etc. It is in these ideas that a Grey can be just as driven in her compassion as she can be by ruthlessness. The difference is that she has the freedom to choose at will.

The grey path is not a middle path between two extremes. It is an embracing of both extremes equally. A Grey embraces attachment for power. This power is not over others but over self. Grey do not view emotions as positive or negative and they don’t limit themselves in any undertaking. In fact their entire journey is about achieving the impossible. The grey allow their environment be what it wants to be and then takes advantage of that. This is a more natural state to exist in and it’s harder to achieve than trying to enforce any artificial systems of control. These artificial systems are subject to unnatural resistance because that is not the way we evolved to function. Instead we were meant to achieve symbiosis with our environment and achieve goals without undue or unnatural resistance by taking advantage of our evolutionary traits such as emotion.

Greys see every emotion not as good or bad but as violent or passive. And every emotion contains both these potentials. It is not the emotion itself that gives it this potential, it is the use of the emotion. In this idea Greys see love as having the potential for greatest constructive purposes but also for the greatest of destructive purposes. Hate and anger, all of the emotions are the same way and so grey embrace all emotion and use all to their greatest potential because grey understand that no matter whether any act we undertake is constructive or destructive, both are still acts of creation.

It is mastery that we strive for. To always maintain control over self and to always be in a position to respond to our environment and never just react. That is the truly impossible goal! We embrace pain and suffering as necessary and the most effective paths to growth. It’s not about fixing or avoiding the damage in our lives, it’s about the damage itself. Those damaged spots become the strongest part of our lives. Just like a broken bone becomes stronger at the break over time. It’s still damaged, still scarred still gone through that trauma but is now even better equipped than before.

For a follower of the Grey path it’s not love that is going to save humanity. It’s us that needs to save love in spite of the indifference of nature! That is the mission and in order to do that we need our pain and our scars and our damage because those things become our armor in the fight! This is not the middle road of avoidance. It is the veering off the road into the uncharted wilderness to conquer every fear and make it our bitch! That is the impossible journey!

Each path has its own “North Star” so to speak, that it will follow. In this, one does not choose a path. They already are the embodiment of that path because of who they are as a being. The trick is to figure out who that person is inside each of us and which attributes we carry as sacred. For some that North Star may be Passion or empathy or honor and all the myriad of specific details that may entail. But for the Grey that North Star is Freedom. They follow their own whims and avoid rules and traditions. Their own desire for freedom determines any decisions of morality. If one can’t maintain that focus on freedom then they have drifted so far from the North Star of the Grey that they have taken up the North Star of another path and in this, they are no longer really grey anyway and they never truly were.

Thanks! Actually I'm not sure about the PMS. I have never used them until now but I will check it out and let you know!

hey thanks for the answer and good to be here , i will be reading up soon One thing , when i log out , i cannot log in without changing my password haha , this is probably on my side something wrong i do because i have 2 email adresses on Pro Board and it refuses to switch between my board and yours loll

Yes , but it was on my end , somehow my Proboard does not like me having 2 email accounts that i log in with , now i have the same password for both accounts , hahaha ....solved hehe